The State of Virginity

The State of Virginity
I should like you to be free of all worries. The unmarried man is busy with the Lord's affairs, concerned with pleasing the Lord; but the married man is busy with this world's demands and occupied with pleasing his wife. This means he is divided. The virgin - indeed, any unmarried woman - is concerned with things of the Lord, in pursuit of holiness in body and spirit. The married woman, on the other hand, has the cares of this world to absorb her and concerned with pleasing her husband. I am going into this with you for your own good. I have no desire to place restrictions on you, but I do want to promote what is good, what will help you to devote yourselves entirely to the Lord. 1 Corinthians 7:32-35

Monday, February 8, 2010

HOW DO YOU KNOW IF YOUR SPOUSE IS CHEATING ON YOU?

Do you know that every line on our palms tells a story? Merely by looking at these lines on our palms, one who has knowledge of palmistry can interpret the signs and emblems that are indelibly etched on our palms. For instance, if there is a break in the line of life but the two fragments overlay each other, the subject will suffer from a very grave illness but he will surely recover. If the line is broken up and laddered then it means continuous ill health.

Now to answer the questions that some of my readers asked me regarding palmistry. Many think that palmistry is superstition and that Catholics shouldn't believe in that. To me, palmistry is a science which helps us to plan for the future and to avoid misfortune. Supposing the subject knows that he will suffer from a grave illness at a certain age, he can pay more attention to his health and diet and this would enable him to prevent or lessen the seriousness of his illness. The lines on our palms are inborn and they have nothing to do with any higher spiritual power. Knowing ourselves and our lives would ensure that we do not live blindly. We can allow something bad to happen if we want or prevent it and this is what palmistry is all about. Tonight I will discuss about the line of marriage and how it can help us to avoid a painful relationship.

Everyone wants a blissful marriage and to live happily ever after. Marriage binds two people together and children will strenghten the marriage. This is the ideal and fervent hope of any married couple. But how many of them actually live happily ever after with their spouse? Sad to say, many marriages do not turn out right. More and more people are getting divorced nowadays because of ignorance, incompatibility and worse of all, interference by a third party. Many marriages break down not because the husband is flirtatious but because of what is known as "bad luck" in a woman's love life because her husband is seduced by another woman and because she has no luck in love. Some men fall for another younger woman because they want to taste something new. Everyone loves new clothes. Every man loves young and beautiful women and this is human nature. If he is lucky enough to be seduced by a beautiful young woman, then surely he wouldn't reject this great opportunity!

I remember one of my students telling me about her parents' divorce a few years back. Her grandmother used to say that her father even knelt down in front of her mother to beg her to marry him. But after 16 years, the marriage has gone stale because her father has fallen in love with a woman who is much younger than her mother. Her mother said that she doesn't mind "bermadu" (bermadu is a malay word meaning sharing her husband with another woman as muslims can take four wives) but her husband's new love said "no" and forced my student's father to divorce his wife. Where is the love that he had for her sixteen years ago? After the divorce, he gives her RM400 a month to support his three children which is not even enough to rent a flat but he just couldn't be bothered about his ex-wife anymore.

Recently I read about a woman ( in her fifties) who jumped from the windowsill and died because her husband threatened to divorce her. He has found a younger new lover. According to their daughter, her father was sitting at the computer table and should be able to see what her mother was doing. So he saw her sitting on the windowsill but purposely kept his eyes closed. Or was it because he was hoping that she would die so that he could marry a younger wife legally? Ladies, think of it. Is it worth dying for a man who no longer loves you? No doubt, women need love. But I think it is better to become a nun than to suffer like this.

There is a time set apart in one's life to marry or not to marry, to separate or divorce. Whatever will be, will be. If the marriage is fated to break down, it will break down. This notion about Fate is also portrayed in the Bible where the hand of God preordaining human affairs can be seen from Genesis to Revelation. In Luke 24:44 Jesus says, "everything written about me in the law of Moses and the prophets and psalms had to be fulfilled." Thus we can see that even Jesus is not given much free will or choice during his earthly life as His life is predestined. The whole story of your life is written on your palms. In other words, the reading of the lines on one's palms can lead to accurate predictions of one's future.

How do you know if your marriage would last? How do you know if your husband is having an affair with another woman or whether there is third party interference in your marriage? Many women prefer to brush aside this issue in the hope that their husband would not cheat on them. It is wise not to be naive and believe that everything is all right until it is too late to save the marriage. I remember telling one of my friends about her husband's activities with a younger woman but she refused to believe me until it was too late. She kept finding excuses for herself saying that the girl I saw could be her husband's colleague or cousin sister and that she knew about it. Or was she trying to evade reality because she feared losing him? Even during the early days of her marriage, I have already warned her to be extra careful with her husband because she has a troubled marriage line. But she said she didn't believe in palmistry and she had confidence in her husband since marriage is based on trust. Her husband finally divorced her and she is now single again - a single mother with three young children to support. And her husband doesn't even bother to see them. What is she doing now? Trying to get a new husband but mother luck is never on her side and she suffers from one broken relationship after another. I told her to give up looking for a man as she is destined to be rejected by men but of course she wouldn't listen to me and is still hoping that she would find someone. This is what we call "women's weakness" and this is also what the men often take advantage of.

Why did her husband divorce her? She is a good wife and mother. She is not ugly. She is a good cook. She doesn't like to nag at her husband. She is an obedient wife. Sounds perfect, isn't she? Perhaps this question can be answered by reference to palmistry. The marriage line is like a mirror that can reveal events taking place in a relationship or marriage. It can tell whether a person will be disappointed in love. A clear marriage line indicates a blissful relationship. A marriage or relationship will be in trouble if the following signs are seen on the palm: a) an island on the marriage line b) the marriage line is criss-crossed by bars b) the marriage line is forked c) the marriage line is broken d) the marriage and heart lines have many islands on it (e) the marriage line divides at the end into a dropping fork sloping toward the centre of the hand. All these signs on the palms denote disappointments in love, divorce, unhappiness and outsiders interfering with marriage. When there are many fine lines running parallel to the marriage line, it denotes many love affairs outside the existing marriage.

My advice is take a good look at your marriage line before you get married. Study the marriage line before tying the knot. Know your partner before jumping into a marriage and do not be blinded by love. Below are some of the tell-tale signs of husbands who are having affairs outside the marriage.
(a) When a man starts complaining about the minor mistakes that his wife makes - this is because he is comparing his wife with another woman.
(b) When a husband becomes very particular with his looks, smell and dressing, something is amiss.
(c) When a man loses his temper at the slightest provocation and keeps telling his wife that they are not compatible.
(d) When a man dare not see 'eye-to-eye' with his wife.
(e) When a man gives all kinds of silly excuses to avoid having a sexual relationship with his wife.
(f) When a man often comes home late with the excuse that he has to work overtime.
(g) When a man is always busy smsing someone.

There are many marriages that break up after 10, 20 or even 30 years. All too often, the divorce is initiated by men. Why? Because men are very valuable. Why do I say this? Once, when I was buying my lunch at the restaurant near my school, I overheard the conversation between two 'Ah Peks' who are already in their sixties. Guess what they were talking about? They said that men are much fewer in number than women and that the government should change the law to allow every man to take two wives legally. These two 'Ah Peks' also said that they wouldn't mind taking a second wife in her thirties. It seems that our 'Ah Peks' here know how valuable they are!

The truth is it is almost impossible for a woman in her sixties to find a husband. Men of her age or older would prefer to go for younger women (in their thirties or perhaps younger) and of course younger men would definitely not fall for a woman of her age. He would rather be poor than to have an old wife. On the contrary, it is possible for a man in his nineties to marry a young wife in her twenties. In fact, I read about this some time ago. This man's wife who is almost his age, finds that she cannot tend to his needs anymore and got a young bride (who is still in her twenties) for her husband and this young lady gladly married him and vowed to look after him forever. As long as a man has money, he can easily find himself a young bride no matter how old he is. However, the opposite seems to be true for women. She may have a lot of money but she cannot buy a husband with her money. My advice to spinsters and divorcees is: Do not go all the way out to look for a man and in the process degrade yourselves. There is no such thing as one cannot live without a man. Think of the Lord. Offer your life to him. Believe me, you'll find real happiness this way.

3 comments:

  1. I really wanted my ex to return to me, but I also wanted the reassurance did this actually works and I did not want to be taken advantage of. I did not have a lot of money so I wanted this to work. I wanted my ex back and I will do anything to get her back. I love her and want only her in my life. Priestess Munak went over some important details of my life, and after casting the spell, my loved Lisa called me back, and moved in with me again. We are very happy now, I would advice anyone to meet this spell lady for her spell is strong. her email is priestessmunak@gmail.com

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  2. Thanks but be specific with clear photos

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  3. My experience and study tells me that these lines may indicate less about marriage and more about the sexuality of a person. that is why the lines are also known as the lines of sexuality. to answer a question about marriage, the other lines on the palm must also be studied.

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